ROAD
TRIP:
My brother called to tell
me that Uncle Paul had died at home on February 15. The funeral was
scheduled for Wednesday morning at 10:30 at the Cloverdale Chapel and
internment at Emmett Cemetery at 2 p.m.
So we packed and husband
and I left eastward bound in Winter over the Blues headed to
Emmett...in the Winter. We drove in shifts mostly an hour or so.
The weather in Oregon was appropriately wet. The road spray was such
that it was precisely like driving through a car wash with bad
windshield wipers all the way to Pendleton. The rain stopped there
and the wind blew and buffeted us quite badly. The Blues were
mercifully dry and clear. We got into Emmett about 8 pm after
various stops for fuel, food and rest stops. We checked into the
local motel, no tell. The manager of this establishment has a sign
on her door, “Beware of friendly dogs”. Boy, I'll say; the big
one is a tan colored Bull Mastif weighing a good 150 pounds. The
other dog is an arthritic white English bull dog who only weighs 140
lbs. They were very um, welcoming.
We coordinated with
Richard (He was one of Aunt Wandas' choices for pall bearer) and
Cathy and I rode over with them to the services. I'm glad Richard
was driving the usual Treasure Valley real estate market has been
booming steadily through the entire recession. Didn't recognize
much. Got to the Chapel and visited with many family members. Paul
Berglund (Uncle Paul's Grandson) and Jeremy Boyle (also a grandson)
were both speakers. (Generally speaking the Berglunds sure do make
good looking young men and women) The services were nicely done and
there were some who spoke of their relationships and friendships with
the family over the years. They had a montage of old photos that
were very interesting, I was even in it. Most of the speakers
mentioned Uncle Paul's truck driving career. We grew up as kids
being exposed to stories of long haul trucking and the perils
therein. We were educated on trucking etiquette; don't drive in the
blind spot, back up until you can see the driver's rear view mirrors,
don't pull over too soon when passing, wait until you can see the
lights in your rearview mirror before pulling in front, keep an eye
open for mile markers, you will need this to estimate miles left on
that particular highway. We also heard tales of chaining up for Ladd
Canyon so we were channeling Uncle Paul on that part of the route.
We headed to Emmett to
dress a little warmer for the ceremonies at the Emmett Cemetery. The
wind was blowing so hard that Tim lost his hat and we had hat chasing
activities. Everyone there was invited to meet at a local
establishment afterwards. We went to pick up Aunt Ollie and met up
with them and had a very nice visit. Young Paul Berglund has posted
on Facebook that Cloverdale had posted a video of the services on
their website. I was tempted to share a Boise Berglund memory but
declined in favor decorum. However, here is my sharing. The Boise
Berglunds welcomed visitors and they always left the door unlocked.
One time we went to visit and no one was home, so we went in, used
the facilities and left. Mom wrote a note; “We crept in, we crapt
and we crept out.” Not all visitors left notes. Aunt Wanda came
home once to find the recliner turned completely turned upside down.
She pretty much knew who to call, T.K.Jensen an old family friend.
She read him the riot act and he told her next time he would turn
over the couch.
Over all it was a loving
send off for a much beloved Grandpa Berglund. I learned a few things
about Uncle Paul; his middle name was Eber, the fact that he joined
the Air Force while a junior in highschool and served a full hitch.
I had always known that they eloped to Winnemucca to get married. I
did not know Wanda was sixteen at the time! They were so young and
cute and darn near unrecognizale.
In summary the Berglund
brothers, all members of the Greatest Generation, are gone now; we
loved them and have cherished memories of them. God Bless them all.
We left very early
Thursday morning because we had furry live stock at home who needed
to be fed and watered. The weather was cold and the snow clouds
started descending east of La Grande and continued to do so. At
every chain up stop there were dozens of truckers chaining up. We
continued to carefully follow the slushy trail of the semi's in front
of us. Got over the Blues, keep on tip toeing past dozens of
truckers. No evil messages at the Meacham message board. It all
went away going down Cabbage Hill and the rest of the drive was
mostly clear. It is amazing what a new pair of windshield wipers can
do to boost the driving morale.
God Bless you each and
everyone and Drive Safely!!
PS: I hope that young
Paul Berglund's Lime Green Dodge Charger can be fixed as he had some
driving adventures on the way to Boise from Nevada....in Winter....
3 comments:
So glad that you made it to the service, I did watch it on the Cloverdale website, and was so proud of Paulette... Was Uncle Paul buried at the Veteran's Cemetery?
EJ
Never mind, I know that he was buried in Emmett, just had a senior moment when I saw your picture at the Veteran's memorial... EJ
Thank you for being one of the representatives of the absent Emmett Berglunds,
Carla
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